mementomori
Landed Gentry
Leaning Into Impermanence
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Feb 3, 2013 0:34:44 GMT -4
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Zac Efron
Jul 7, 2014 22:40:05 GMT -4
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Post by mementomori on Jul 7, 2014 22:40:05 GMT -4
She dated Vin Diesel, had that fling with Olivier Martinez, think she was rumored to have slept with Colin Farrell. She says she's bi and dates both men and women so I too am puzzled why so many people on other sites seem to think she's gay. Topic: Zac is adorable and while she seems to enjoy far too many substances to be a good companion for someone in Efron's situation I think she's the hottest woman he's ever been linked too.
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GinFizz
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Post by GinFizz on Jul 7, 2014 22:53:09 GMT -4
I too am puzzled why so many people on other sites seem to think she's gay. This may be one reason:
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Post by Hamatron on Jul 7, 2014 22:59:14 GMT -4
I know he had rumors early in his career, but Vin Diesel has a girlfriend. They have a son and a daughter. They've been together for like, 7-8 years.
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May 3, 2024 12:18:13 GMT -4
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2014 0:00:42 GMT -4
I'm just confused because I thought Michelle was still with Cara D. That didn't last long!
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Post by Hamatron on Jul 8, 2014 0:20:09 GMT -4
Yeah, I think they broke up last month. They seemed really drunk whenever they where photographed together, so maybe it's for the best. Both have been on glam rich-people vacations lately with friends, as apparently all the celebs in my Instagram feed are right now, hah.
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Post by Kaleidoscope Eyes on Jul 8, 2014 6:55:03 GMT -4
If they didn't both have issues with substances, I would completely and unabashedly enjoy the total randomness of this pair. Seriously, I would ship them so hard.
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kali
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Post by kali on Jul 8, 2014 9:03:25 GMT -4
I feel like he gets so much of a pass. Gets in knife fights while on drug crawls, goes to rehab multiple times, reports of him being a coked out mess on set, and he's still thought of as such a professional, clean-cut young man.
Going on vacations with "Italian business men" and Michelle Rodriguez does not generally indicate a clean lifestyle.
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luthia
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Post by luthia on Jul 8, 2014 9:28:14 GMT -4
Huh, I thought she was bisexual in the Bryan Singer/Michael Stipe sense, as in "I'm totally gay, but I'm just gonna say I'm bisexual because it's more socially acceptable than being 100% gay." Last I heard, Michael Stipe identifies as queer, and has dated both men and women long-term. I think some of his waffling in the '90s/'00s comes from us not really having as much sexuality vocabulary as we do today. I know everyone seems to think Michelle is a lesbian, but she generally describes herself as sexually fluid, and has dated both guys and gals openly, so that's probably how she rolls. Yes, I think the reason that the press is confused is because many people still have a binary view of the world. I know people who identify as queer who don't subscribe to the binary view of the world: gay, straight, bisexual. They prefer to see themselves as sexually fluid and have attraction for people, regardless of whether or not they are male or female. Another term in the vocabulary is "cisgender", which refers to whether someone is, for example, bisexual and not transgender (or transitioning) vs someone who may be bisexual and transgender. However, I think that many people are seeing themselves as part of the "queer community" rather than the gay, homosexual or bisexual community because they see "queer" as inclusive of all of those things, but more than that, it refers to a view of the world that refuses to accept binaries: male and female; gay, bisexual and homosexual, etc. I have a bisexual male friend who is cisgender (identifies as a male in body and in mind and is not transgender) who always says: "woman-identified" or "man-identified" when he refers to men or women. He never says "woman" or "man". He attaches "identified" onto both terms because he wants to stress that the persons he is discussing see themselves as men and women in body and in mind in terms of their identity (in other words, they see themselves as cisgender and not transgendered). I think these terms are confusing, but I think people are grappling with ways to define people or gender in ways that are no longer confining by the dominant culture. So, for journalists who are confused by Michelle Rodriguez, it may have a lot to do with how they view the world and gender, which is not how many queer people see the world or their identity.
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mementomori
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Leaning Into Impermanence
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Feb 3, 2013 0:34:44 GMT -4
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Post by mementomori on Jul 8, 2014 9:49:04 GMT -4
I too am puzzled why so many people on other sites seem to think she's gay. This may be one reason: This made me laugh so hard this morning!!!
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Post by GoldenFleece on Jul 8, 2014 18:10:58 GMT -4
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