Post by swanflake on Jan 26, 2006 19:48:35 GMT -4
About that Reuters article--it says Oprah has spent 19 years in television, which I guess is how long the talk show has been on, but on the show today she didn't say that, she said that she's been in television since she was 19 years old, counting everything she's done starting from the local news.
Okay, I just finished watching the show. And oh my gosh, I think James Frey is just awful. He barely had any emotion at all. Oprah nearly started to tear up when he confessed that Lily didn't really hang herself, but then when Oprah asked him how Lily really died, he non chalantly said that she cut her wrists. I couldn't believe he could speak about this girl he alledges to have loved so deeply so easily without showing any feeling. And he kept referring to her as a "character", which Oprah called him on. How can he call this girl he loved with all his heart just another "character". In the book he said he couldn't get to Lily before she killed herself because he was in jail for so long, so Oprah asked him if she really existed and she really killed herself, then what was the real reason he couldn't get to her since we all know he wasn't in jail. He said something about how he went down to some other state to sort things out, or something like that--I forget exactly how he put it--and she just up and decided to kill herself before he got back. Again, not much emotion in recanting this.
Oprah asked him why he did this. He said that, as a coping mechanism for the stuff he went through, in his mind he created this fantasy that he is greater than he really is. He couldn't cope with just being your run of the mill overgrown frat boy with a drinking problem. He had to make himself into a tragic hero. Then Oprah asked him if all the lies were meant for that reason, or if they were to sell more books, and he answered "Probably both" or however he put it. Later Oprah asked him if he thought he had lied or if he just made a mistake. "Probably both." That was his response everytime she asked him and either/or question.
But I kinda feel that Oprah came on too strongly with the Publisher. Oprah was unusually aggressive in asking the woman why she didn't have the facts checked out before the book was categorized as a truthful memoir. Oprah seemed to keep grilling the woman for not recognizing the signs in the book, well hello Oprah, neither did you. The Publisher even said that she herself once had a root canal without novocaine, for whatever reason (she said why but I didn't quite catch what she said), so that wasn't a red flag to her.
Another guest (can't remember his name, some journalist following all of this) pointed out what's already been said in this thread, that to get over the addictions that James Frey claims to have gotten over, you need truth and honesty and self-actualization--all the things that James Frey is not exhibiting in this whole mess. Which just discredits him all the more.
But other that coming on maybe a bit too strongly with the book's Publisher, I commend Oprah's humility on the show today, even inviting on a journalist who called her "delluded" in an article of his about the show today, and she said he was right in stating that. I think she really did a great job at putting her own professional interests aside for the sake of her many fans who followed her into getting so emotionally enveloped into this book. James Frey, on the other hand, deserves no such credit. Yeah, he agreed to go onto the show when I suppose he didn't have to, but his reaction to everything seemed so cold. I don't think he cares about anyone but himself in this matter. The second half of the show he barely said a word and looked irritated the whole time. Irritated in a "Why do I have to put up with this shit?" kind of way. I think there's a lot of truth in the frat boy stereotypes people have been applying to him.
Okay, I just finished watching the show. And oh my gosh, I think James Frey is just awful. He barely had any emotion at all. Oprah nearly started to tear up when he confessed that Lily didn't really hang herself, but then when Oprah asked him how Lily really died, he non chalantly said that she cut her wrists. I couldn't believe he could speak about this girl he alledges to have loved so deeply so easily without showing any feeling. And he kept referring to her as a "character", which Oprah called him on. How can he call this girl he loved with all his heart just another "character". In the book he said he couldn't get to Lily before she killed herself because he was in jail for so long, so Oprah asked him if she really existed and she really killed herself, then what was the real reason he couldn't get to her since we all know he wasn't in jail. He said something about how he went down to some other state to sort things out, or something like that--I forget exactly how he put it--and she just up and decided to kill herself before he got back. Again, not much emotion in recanting this.
Oprah asked him why he did this. He said that, as a coping mechanism for the stuff he went through, in his mind he created this fantasy that he is greater than he really is. He couldn't cope with just being your run of the mill overgrown frat boy with a drinking problem. He had to make himself into a tragic hero. Then Oprah asked him if all the lies were meant for that reason, or if they were to sell more books, and he answered "Probably both" or however he put it. Later Oprah asked him if he thought he had lied or if he just made a mistake. "Probably both." That was his response everytime she asked him and either/or question.
But I kinda feel that Oprah came on too strongly with the Publisher. Oprah was unusually aggressive in asking the woman why she didn't have the facts checked out before the book was categorized as a truthful memoir. Oprah seemed to keep grilling the woman for not recognizing the signs in the book, well hello Oprah, neither did you. The Publisher even said that she herself once had a root canal without novocaine, for whatever reason (she said why but I didn't quite catch what she said), so that wasn't a red flag to her.
Another guest (can't remember his name, some journalist following all of this) pointed out what's already been said in this thread, that to get over the addictions that James Frey claims to have gotten over, you need truth and honesty and self-actualization--all the things that James Frey is not exhibiting in this whole mess. Which just discredits him all the more.
But other that coming on maybe a bit too strongly with the book's Publisher, I commend Oprah's humility on the show today, even inviting on a journalist who called her "delluded" in an article of his about the show today, and she said he was right in stating that. I think she really did a great job at putting her own professional interests aside for the sake of her many fans who followed her into getting so emotionally enveloped into this book. James Frey, on the other hand, deserves no such credit. Yeah, he agreed to go onto the show when I suppose he didn't have to, but his reaction to everything seemed so cold. I don't think he cares about anyone but himself in this matter. The second half of the show he barely said a word and looked irritated the whole time. Irritated in a "Why do I have to put up with this shit?" kind of way. I think there's a lot of truth in the frat boy stereotypes people have been applying to him.