Peter Boyle

[grumpygirl]

sunnyhorse said:

He had the same kind of cancer that killed my dad, and I can say with some authority that it's painful and debilitating. He must have been incredibly tough to get up and go to work every day. Such a shame.

Oooh, SH, I'm so sorry about your dad. It sounds terrible. No wonder Peter had been looking so gaunt.

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He was John's best man at his wedding to Yoko.

It was the reverse, actually - John was his best man (he and John didn't know each other in 1969 when the Lennons got married).

I recall that his daughters are quite young as well. I think at the height of Raymond his daughter Lucy was only slightly older than the characters who played his grandkids.

[scarlet]

People updated the story:

Everybody Loves Raymond star Peter Boyle died on Tuesday evening at New York Presbyterian Hospital after a long battle with heart disease and multiple myeloma, a bone-marrow cancer, said his publicist Jennifer Plante.

Though his Raymond character Frank Barone was a curmudgeon whose favorite expression was "Holy crap," "Peter is very intellectual," his wife, Loraine, told PEOPLE in 1999. "He can talk about anything from philosophy to politics to history. With Frank, his character, you get the feeling that he's mainly interested in the next slice of pizza."

In Philadelphia, where the future actor grew up, his father, Peter Sr., was known as Uncle Pete, host of a local children's TV show (mom Alice was a homemaker). But Boyle, the youngest of three, resisted showbiz and in 1953 enrolled in Philadelphia's La Salle University, where he joined the order of Christian Brothers, a brief commitment that would later baffle him.

"I had a spiritual experience, and then I didn't," he said of his vow of poverty and chastity. "It got too hard, not dating anybody, not being able to go to the movies. You don't do anything but study and pray!"

After graduating from La Salle in 1957, Boyle moved to New York City to become an actor. "I went from poverty to real poverty," he said. After landing a few theater roles in the '60s, Boyle finally nabbed the lead in the 1970 cult film Joe. That same year he turned down Gene Hackman's Oscar-winning role in The French Connection on his agent's advice.

"When the movie came out I got high, I got depressed," Boyle told PEOPLE, adding, "I don't drink or drug, and I haven't for many years."

He rebounded with his hilarious role as the monster in Mel Brooks's 1974 spoof, Young Frankenstein. Boyle called it "the highlight of my career."

On the Frankenstein set he met journalist Loraine Alterman. The couple married in 1977 with their mutual friend John Lennon as best man.

The couple's first child, Lucy, was born two days after Lennon's December 1980 murder. ("One goes, one comes," said Boyle. "It's still mind-bending.") The actor's second daughter, Amy, arrived in 1983.

But while shooting a movie in Salt Lake City in 1990, "suddenly I had trouble speaking and moving," Boyle later recalled. Doctors dissolved the stroke-causing blood clot, but "I had to do some rehab because I had trouble speaking. It was scary."

His speech improved, and in 1994, Boyle costarred in the Sandra Bullock hit While You Were Sleeping.

When he tried out for Raymond in 1996, his agitation over arriving late to the audition helped him nail the part. "I was ready to pop," Boyle recalled. "I didn't plan it that way, but I was just like Frank when I walked in."

Though Boyle was nominated several times for an Emmy for his Raymond role, he never won. He did win an outstanding guest actor Emmy in 1996 for his appearance on The X-Files.

Funeral arrangements for the actor will be announced shortly.

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The last couple of years of Raymond he was looking gaunt. I've often wondered if his illness was part of the reason Ray Romano chose to end the show. They seemed really close. On Access Hollywood tonight, Doris Roberts seemed really upset also. I loved him as Frank, and watching "While you were sleeping" this holiday season will be hard this year because of his passing. R.I.P.

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Seemed like a sweetheart. The only one in the cast I liked. RIP.

[Shanmac]

sunnyhorse said:

He had the same kind of cancer that killed my dad, and I can say with some authority that it's painful and debilitating. He must have been incredibly tough to get up and go to work every day. Such a shame.

I knew a lady with the same cancer, too. An evil, insidious disease. Mr. Boyle (and your dad) had guts, I know that much.

A friend of mine saw him in L.A. a couple of years ago and said he didn't look good at all. Even so, it's sad to hear, especially so close to the holidays.

[Sunnyhorse]

shanmac said:

sunnyhorse said:

He had the same kind of cancer that killed my dad, and I can say with some authority that it's painful and debilitating. He must have been incredibly tough to get up and go to work every day. Such a shame.

I knew a lady with the same cancer, too. An evil, insidious disease. Mr. Boyle (and your dad) had guts, I know that much.

A friend of mine saw him in L.A. a couple of years ago and said he didn't look good at all. Even so, it's sad to hear, especially so close to the holidays.

Shanmac, thanks for the compliment for Dad. He did indeed have guts -- battled MM for seven years, about five years beyond the expected survival when he got the diagnosis -- and your description of "evil and insidious" is right on the mark. How did the lady you knew fare?

Thanks to whomever it was upthread who mentioned the great exchange between Clyde Bruckman and Fox Mulder regarding autoerotic asphyxiation -- it was one of the funniest/spookiest moments of The X-Files, I thought.

[ladymadonna]

Awwww. I'll always remember him for Young Frankenstein... ''Puttin' on the Riiiiiizzzzzz". Funniest delivery of a line. Evah.

RIP Peter Boyle.