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Post by discoprincess on May 4, 2017 12:05:08 GMT -4
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Post by Deleted on May 4, 2017 12:12:58 GMT -4
I remember seeing him in an interview promoting Top Five where he kept going on about Rosario Dawson and thinking Dude! You have a wife! As a married man, his comments were inappropriate. If he and Rosario Dawson were having an affair, he wasn't trying very hard to hide it.
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Post by Auroranorth on May 4, 2017 15:45:00 GMT -4
I'll give him props for this, at least:
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laboria
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Post by laboria on May 5, 2017 10:40:00 GMT -4
I'll give him props for this, at least: I hope that last part is true. I saw him a couple of months ago, and fully 45 minutes was based on marriage. He didn't speak negatively about his ex, though. And I am really trying to remember if he said it was a former member of DC, or an original member of DC. I think it was the latter. Edit: I just read the article, and I was at that first Richmond show. I wish I had known ?uestlove was there, because I have loved The Roots since their first album. But we were in the last row in the top balcony, so I wouldn't have seen anybody, and could barely see Chris.
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SApril
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Post by SApril on May 5, 2017 15:02:05 GMT -4
Does he still not claim the child her adopted and raised?
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Post by Mutagen on May 5, 2017 15:17:18 GMT -4
Even with that bit of self-awareness, he's always struck me as so weirdly bitter about marriage. Maybe he's just not the type cut out for monogamy but dude, no one put a gun to your head and made you walk down the aisle. What's his deal?
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Post by narm on May 5, 2017 15:49:56 GMT -4
Yeah, I like Chris but his marriage issue just seem so deeeeeeep and you are right; he is terribly bitter. I always felt sorry for his wife.
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Post by Babycakes on May 5, 2017 17:12:41 GMT -4
Even back in the Bring the Pain era, I found it hard to believe that Chris was married, yet alone, happily. It's always been right there in his comedy. I think he felt he had to get married, because of his parents. He grew up in a 2 parent home, so he felt that he should continue that tradition. He married someone "better" than he deserved. She was more attractive and educated than he probably thought he deserved, and his mom probably pressured him into marrying her, thinking he couldn't do much better. I don't have receipts, but this is a feeling that I've got from the interviews I've read/seen from all 3 (Chris, Mom, and Malaak). Chris didn't have the looks, but he had the personality and fame to pull a decent amount of women. He probably wanted to play the field, and eventually settle down and have kids, but got married too soon. He was trying to live in both worlds, player and family guy. He couldn't maintain it, and that led to his resentment of his wife and mom. Praying that his mom would die? Yikes. I know he framed it as not having his kids being there when she died, but damn, you should be praying for her speedy recovery. Maybe I'm over analyzing, but I've been following Chris since SNL, and he's never seemed content.
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dragonflie
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Post by dragonflie on May 5, 2017 17:42:01 GMT -4
I also get this real sense that he is really bitter about money/being the "breadwinner". It seems like he may have some harsh ideas/expectations of the female/male or wife/husband roles. He, more than once, seems to throw out jabs about his (ex)wife and how much money he makes... how "nice" it is to be with someone who has money now... how much he had to pay for the divorce. And that really throws me off; they have 2 kids. I assume as he was travelling all over the place (screwing other women) his wife was looking after his children. Seems pretty low to me to be bitter about $$.
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Post by Ginger on May 5, 2017 17:48:45 GMT -4
Even back in the Bring the Pain era, I found it hard to believe that Chris was married, yet alone, happily. It's always been right there in his comedy. I think he felt he had to get married, because of his parents. He grew up in a 2 parent home, so he felt that he should continue that tradition. He married someone "better" than he deserved. She was more attractive and educated than he probably thought he deserved, and his mom probably pressured him into marrying her, thinking he couldn't do much better. I don't have receipts, but this is a feeling that I've got from the interviews I've read/seen from all 3 (Chris, Mom, and Malaak). Chris didn't have the looks, but he had the personality and fame to pull a decent amount of women. He probably wanted to play the field, and eventually settle down and have kids, but got married too soon. He was trying to live in both worlds, player and family guy. He couldn't maintain it, and that led to his resentment of his wife and mom. Praying that his mom would die? Yikes. I know he framed it as not having his kids being there when she died, but damn, you should be praying for her speedy recovery. Maybe I'm over analyzing, but I've been following Chris since SNL, and he's never seemed content. He's made all of this exceedingly clear even to people who don't follow him closely. It seemed like he walked down the aisle at gunpoint and was always resentful of his wife, resentful of marriage, and bitter about his life. I'm actually surprised he said anything gracious about his ex-wife because he never seemed to like her even when he was married to her.
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