Jennifer Hudson

[LurkerNan]

JHud's fiancee is "adjusting" to the new figure. Poor Punk, he's probably one of those guys who likes a slightly bigger girl. Or maybe he's threatened by the new sexiness... or maybe he just likes to eat out and she's gotten all calorie-watchie about it.

In any case, shouldn't they be married by now? It feels like they've been engaged forever. I wonder if they will be together for much longer.

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Their son's 19 months old already, so they've been together for about 3 years and been engaged since her birthday in 2008. Just go to the courthouse! Takes 10 minutes.

[holyshiloh]

Mar 28, 2011 11:02:34 GMT -4 LurkerNan said:

JHud's fiancee is "adjusting" to the new figure. Poor Punk, he's probably one of those guys who likes a slightly bigger girl. Or maybe he's threatened by the new sexiness... or maybe he just likes to eat out and she's gotten all calorie-watchie about it.

In any case, shouldn't they be married by now? It feels like they've been engaged forever. I wonder if they will be together for much longer.

For having been with a guy like that... he DEFINITELY feels threatened. Which sucks, cause he should just be happy that she feels better and sexier in her own body, and wants to dress the way she feels!
Tool.
(sorry, guys like that drive me nuts.)

[thingee]

Mar 28, 2011 12:12:37 GMT -4 holyshiloh said:

Mar 28, 2011 11:02:34 GMT -4 LurkerNan said:

JHud's fiancee is "adjusting" to the new figure. Poor Punk, he's probably one of those guys who likes a slightly bigger girl. Or maybe he's threatened by the new sexiness... or maybe he just likes to eat out and she's gotten all calorie-watchie about it.

In any case, shouldn't they be married by now? It feels like they've been engaged forever. I wonder if they will be together for much longer.

For having been with a guy like that... he DEFINITELY feels threatened. Which sucks, cause he should just be happy that she feels better and sexier in her own body, and wants to dress the way she feels!
Tool.
(sorry, guys like that drive me nuts.)

I don't know, some guys just like bigger women. Presumably, he was attracted to her as a larger woman, because that's what she was when they met. If she had been thin, but gained a bunch of weight, we would understand if he was struggling with accepting her new body; the reverse could be true as well.

[holyshiloh]

True, but it's this quote of him saying:

"'Why do you have to have to get all dressed up to go out and why can't you just go out like you used to?"

That sounds (to me) like he has an issue with her looking sexy.

ETA : I also think that some guys like larger women because they feel they won't attract other men as slimmer women do. Happenned to me : gained 20 pounds with my ex, and decided to start going to the gym. His initial reaction was : "Why?!"
And that wasn't because he liked my new fat body. When we split up, he admitted he didn't find me as attractive as I was before my weight gain.

[thingee]

Ah OK. I see what you're saying!

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Mar 28, 2011 12:25:53 GMT -4 holyshiloh said:

True, but it's this quote of him saying:

"'Why do you have to have to get all dressed up to go out and why can't you just go out like you used to?"

That sounds (to me) like he has an issue with her looking sexy.

ETA : I also think that some guys like larger women because they feel they won't attract other men as slimmer women do.

Getting dressed up the way Jennifer does now takes time. Maybe he just liked it when she'd put on some jeans, a blouse, and a jacket and hit the door instead of going full-on glam. David wouldn't be the first guy to complain about a lady taking for-freaking-ever to leave the house.

And yeah, some guys like big girls because they think there'll be less competition. But Jennifer wasn't repulsive or morbidly obese. She was a big girl (and tall, which made her look fatter than she was) but on the smaller end of plus-sized. She's also very pretty, well dressed, and famous. I'd guess she got lots of attention when she was bigger.

Some men just like a big ass. Thank goodness.

[discoprincess]

Mar 28, 2011 11:02:34 GMT -4 LurkerNan said:

JHud's fiancee is "adjusting" to the new figure. Poor Punk, he's probably one of those guys who likes a slightly bigger girl.

"I like big butts and I can not lie" [/Sir Mix-a-Lot]

He may like a woman with some junk in her trunk, and in his eyes the weight loss probably deflated her ass.

I applaud Jennifer on her weight loss, but her head in that picture does seem out of proportion to the rest of her body.

[mochakitty]

Jennifer at the 2011 MET Ball (May 2nd, NYC):

Close-up

Full Length Shot

The 29-year-old singer and actress wore a silk tissue organza and French tulle confection from Vera Wang and silver top yellow gold diamond pendant earrings by Fred Leighton.

[huntergrayson]

I can totally see the wig-line on the closeup. But, other than that, she looks absolutely stunning. Probably one of the best of the night.